Kaiya just left after a much-anticipated (by both of us) sleepover with Grandma. However, it didn't quite turn out as planned. I went over to Steph and Mickel's last night and watched the kids while they went to an Ultimate Fight event (yes, a little bit strange, but Mickel's cousin was one of the main attractions). Then I took Kaiya home with me when they returned. She was a little out of sorts last night and didn't want to go to sleep (even though we didn't get home until 12:30). So I let her watch A Bug's Life, thinking she'd fall asleep right away. But no ... Grandma fell asleep and she watched the whole thing through to the end. So by now it's 2:30 a.m., and I'm thinking okay, surely now she'll go to sleep. No. After a minor melt-down, she finally agreed to go to bed and went right to sleep. When she woke up at about 8:00, she was raging hot. She didn't want to eat, she didn't want to do anything, she didn't even want the cookie I offered her for breakfast (sorry Mom - what happens at Grandma's usually stays at Grandma's ...). She threw up twice, and was just a generally miserable little girl. Mom and Dad arrived to drop off Teague while they went to their soccer game, but prepared to forego the game if Kaiya wanted to go home. Brave little trouper that she is, she wanted to stay with Grandma. So they gave her some medicine and left for their game. Luckily, she improved greatly by the time they returned, and - bless her heart - still wanted to stay with Grandma. And I'm very happy to report that Teague seems to be pretty well past the "missing Mom with heartbroken passion" stage, and actually had a good time at Grandma's as well.
HOWEVER ...
I'm now exhausted, the house is a mess, the laundry isn't done, the groceries did not magically appear ...
and I'm not going to do anything about any of it. For today anyway. This is why having babies is best left to young people.